How To Make a Man Love You
If you’re in a relationship with a man who is slow to commit, or if you simply want to know if a man is truly in love with you, there are some simple steps you can take to make him feel (and show) his love for you.
What many a woman doesn’t realize is that the power to sway a man to her side, to captivate and enthral him, is completely in her hands.
But we have some super tips which make building a loving relationship with a man both safe and exciting. Let’s be honest: at the end of the day, women are fighting against a culture in which men often make the decisions and often hold power.
And here’s the exciting thing – women can use their own female power in creative and effective ways to get the man they want, not only in life in general but in their love relationships.
And when it comes to making a man love you, well, you have generations of female wisdom behind you!
If you’re wondering whether your man is in love with you — or you want to strengthen your loving relationship so it lasts – then follow our simple guide for making a guy fall for you…. whether you’re already in a relationship with him or not!
With these easy tips, you’ll be practicing the language of love in no time – and building a healthy partnership along the way.
So here’s how to get started on the path to true love:
Step 1: Grow Your Emotional Intimacy
Look for both small and big moments to build your emotional connection, and he’ll be looking at you with eyes of love in no time.
Keep in mind you may need to tread carefully, though. Each man has a different level of emotional intimacy with which they are comfortable. Pressed too hard, a man may retreat from you. Yet left alone, he may never reveal himself to you.
Maybe your man grew up in a house in which they he was forced to suppress his tears. Of course we all know that crying isn’t really a sign of weakness – it’s a natural reaction in the human body to shed grief, but so many men have been taught to hold their tears in. Perhaps that’s why so many men don’t show their feelings.
Or maybe a man has been hurt in the past, and he’s now keeping you, emotionally, at arm’s length to protect himself from possible hurt.
Common though this is, there are things you can do to accelerate your chance of reaching deeper emotional intimacy.
For example, when you are supportive and present during a job transition, a death in the family or simply a really rotten day, you have the chance to build emotional intimacy with your man.
This will let you form a deeper connection which reminds him you are there for him, and shows him he really can trust you.
Step 2: Let Him Solve Problems
Let him solve problems. Many men are problem-solvers because of the way they’ve been raised in our culture. They want to help you, and see fixing problems – especially those which arise in your relationship – as a primary way to do this.
So if you’re showing him you’re there for him in an effort to build emotional intimacy, let him return the favor to you by allowing him support you in practical ways.
That will make him feel wanted and loved. He’ll feel like he has a purpose both in your life and in the relationship you’re building.
He’ll feel useful, too, and if you show him respect for what he can do, his self-esteem will rise. You will be reflected in the glory of this – after all, you were the one who made him feel good, by appreciating him! That means he will feel closer to you…..
Even if you have a difficult time “letting other people in” or expressing your feelings, this is the right time for you to try to be open and let him step in for you.
If he cares about you and truly loves you, there won’t be anything that will stop him wanting to support you and be present with you in the relationship.
Step 3: Get Into Bed
It’s proven that when you have a great experience in bed, your dopamine levels rise (which makes you feel great), and so does your oxytocin level (which is the bonding hormone) – so you have a higher chance of falling in love or rekindling love.
And so when you enjoy great sex with your significant other, you’ll be well on the way to finding a deeper love! You see, biology and chemistry plays a huge role in whether people stay together and thrive as a couple.
But it’s important to keep your sex life fun and exciting by taking time for one another. You can do this by prioritizing “together time” at all costs. You’ll both benefit from it in many ways, both in the short and long term.
So make sure you take off for a weekend to have an enjoyable getaway full of quality romance. Or make a special dinner date on a week night. Or surprise each other with new ideas for your love life.
When you make time for sex – being together in the bedroom – you’ll find just how easy it is to make a man fall in love with you! So this means you’ll fall in love with your man, and it means your man will fall in love with you, too.
The moral of the story is this: when there is physical chemistry, it leads to magic in other parts of your life. Some commitment of time and effort in this area will not only be fun and healthy for both of you, it will add a lot of enjoyment to your developing relationship over time. here’s a scientific study which proves it. Enjoy!
Step 4: Make Sure you Get What You Want
Make sure the guy you want to make love you is the right man for you. As you know, in any relationship there are always certain attributes and characteristics you want in your partner. Some of those are “nice to have” and some are definite “must-haves”, so you’ll need to work out your requirements early in the relationship to see if it all works for you.
Of course, you’ll need to know what your partner’s requirements of you are, as well.
By knowing what you’re both looking for, you’ll better be able to determine whether you are a good match – now and in the future.
You certainly don’t want to waste any of your time, because time is precious when you’re planning your life.
By doing this ahead of time, you’ll be able to get a sense of whether your man is a good match for you and whether he has the potential for lasting love. When you both match the requirements the other has, it’s like you’re a match made in heaven. You’re almost guaranteed to fall in love and stay deeply in love.
Are You Ready for Love?
If you are ready to fall in love and to see it last in a happy relationship with a man, there are easy things you can do to make sure things are going your way.
For example, you must always know how to use your communication skills to build intimacy. Follow the tips on this page and the other pages of this site and you will get exactly what you want out of your relationship while also enjoying a happy man who is in love with you.